Comments on: My wife is having an affair while I am battling cancer of the prostate, ideas what to do? http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do Answers to all your questions about cancer. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 19:04:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Vanessa http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4063 Vanessa Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:41:31 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4063 If you can get one, hire a private investigator to watch her, or have a friend that YOU trust keep an eye on your house while you're at work. Alternatively, call in one day, park your care somewhere and watch your house from someone else's car. Take pictures if you see anyone coming or going, write down the times, ect. You can google how to catch a cheater, there are loads of ways to do it. Just keep in mind that women do things differently than men and they're extra careful about covering their tracks. Above all, though, GET PROOF before you decide anything. Consider the trustworthiness of her "best friend" -- why the hell did she tell you this? Most women won't rat out their best friends for anything. Be sure that she's not just trying to start crap. If you wife is cheating, then you absolutely should not stay with her. What an unbelievably cold, callous woman to do this to you at such a hard time in your life! If you can get one, hire a private investigator to watch her, or have a friend that YOU trust keep an eye on your house while you’re at work. Alternatively, call in one day, park your care somewhere and watch your house from someone else’s car. Take pictures if you see anyone coming or going, write down the times, ect. You can google how to catch a cheater, there are loads of ways to do it. Just keep in mind that women do things differently than men and they’re extra careful about covering their tracks.

Above all, though, GET PROOF before you decide anything. Consider the trustworthiness of her “best friend” — why the hell did she tell you this? Most women won’t rat out their best friends for anything. Be sure that she’s not just trying to start crap.

If you wife is cheating, then you absolutely should not stay with her. What an unbelievably cold, callous woman to do this to you at such a hard time in your life!

]]> By: justme7 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4062 justme7 Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:42:40 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4062 confront her... and when she denies it, get some help to investigate the matter is it's true then get a divorce... its better to be divorced while you are undergoing treatment than to have her knowing that she is cheating on you.. it will cause you more stress and you deserve someone better.... I hope that she will never get a cent from you because she cheated. the justice system sometime isn't fair.. confront her… and when she denies it, get some help to investigate the matter is it’s true then get a divorce… its better to be divorced while you are undergoing treatment than to have her knowing that she is cheating on you.. it will cause you more stress and you deserve someone better…. I hope that she will never get a cent from you because she cheated. the justice system sometime isn’t fair..

]]> By: Tino {6} http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4061 Tino {6} Fri, 05 Feb 2010 03:36:36 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4061 You need to find out if what her friend is saying, is true. Do not just assume that her friend is right. Verify the information first, then decide what is best for you AND your kids. It is just sickening that people do this to their spouse when they are going through a difficult time. I feel sorry for you having to deal with such an issue when you obviously have so much to think about as it is. I hope everything turns out to be a big misunderstanding so you can dedicate your thought to your health issue. I pray you receive good news from your doctors and a quick recovery follows. Good luck and God bless! You need to find out if what her friend is saying, is true. Do not just assume that her friend is right. Verify the information first, then decide what is best for you AND your kids. It is just sickening that people do this to their spouse when they are going through a difficult time. I feel sorry for you having to deal with such an issue when you obviously have so much to think about as it is. I hope everything turns out to be a big misunderstanding so you can dedicate your thought to your health issue. I pray you receive good news from your doctors and a quick recovery follows. Good luck and God bless!

]]> By: T Ball Babe http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4060 T Ball Babe Tue, 02 Feb 2010 01:54:57 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4060 Buy her some toys and play with her since your not up to the task right now. I hope you beat the cancer it took a friend of my husbands about 7 months to get over the effects of the cancer treatments and about that long to be able to get a ******** again, Your wife is a cold hearted ho though Buy her some toys and play with her since your not up to the task right now.

I hope you beat the cancer it took a friend of my husbands about 7 months to get over the effects of the cancer treatments and about that long to be able to get a ******** again,

Your wife is a cold hearted ho though

]]> By: Glo? http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4059 Glo? Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:10:04 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4059 I am sorry you are dealing with so much right now. Obviously, you need to confront the issue head on. Communication! You must ask her about it and discuss it and go from there. My prayers go out to you. I am sorry you are dealing with so much right now. Obviously, you need to confront the issue head on. Communication! You must ask her about it and discuss it and go from there. My prayers go out to you.

]]> By: Alex http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4058 Alex Sun, 31 Jan 2010 11:43:11 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4058 umm maybe ask for a day off and tell her your going to work leave but come back in and hour or so and just say you weren't feeling well just dont tell that u came home early to see what shes doing... if she is having an affair just divorce.. I REALLY hope your friend is wrong but best of luck to you umm maybe ask for a day off and tell her your going to work leave but come back in and hour or so and just say you weren’t feeling well just dont tell that u came home early to see what shes doing… if she is having an affair just divorce.. I REALLY hope your friend is wrong but best of luck to you

]]> By: yuhu http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4057 yuhu Thu, 28 Jan 2010 02:19:19 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4057 wow i know this is so hard 4 you, but first calm down and talk to her ..be specific ..tell her what ur friend told u ...(i believe this is true) then think about if u r able to forgive and FORGET if not then the best thing to do is to left her.. and u fight for u...and ur kids pray to GOd.. and he will answer! cheerz! wow i know this is so hard 4 you, but first calm down and talk to her ..be specific ..tell her what ur friend told u …(i believe this is true) then think about if u r able to forgive and FORGET if not then the best thing to do is to left her.. and u fight for u…and ur kids pray to GOd.. and he will answer!
cheerz!

]]> By: The BoB http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4056 The BoB Tue, 26 Jan 2010 07:23:51 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4056 Boy you need to dump her ***!! Lose the zero and find yourself a heroooo! :D Boy you need to dump her ***!! Lose the zero and find yourself a heroooo! :D

]]> By: straighttalker http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4055 straighttalker Sat, 23 Jan 2010 10:17:17 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4055 Well I guess she isn't going to be her best friend for much longer. This may be true but I will say that stress is a B and some may see your unfortunate diagnosis and not know how to handle it. if it is true she may need therapy to help her deal with it. Well I guess she isn’t going to be her best friend for much longer. This may be true but I will say that stress is a B and some may see your unfortunate diagnosis and not know how to handle it. if it is true she may need therapy to help her deal with it.

]]> By: Shane M. <- is my boyfriend. http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do/comment-page-1#comment-4054 Shane M. <- is my boyfriend. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:54:02 +0000 http://yourcancerquestions.com/prostate-cancer/my-wife-is-having-an-affair-while-i-am-battling-cancer-of-the-prostate-ideas-what-to-do#comment-4054 That's horrible. What a rotten *****! I'm so sorry! That’s horrible. What a rotten *****! I’m so sorry!

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